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Coming Out Stories Gallery - Kittcha
I had always had fantasies about other women but that's all I thought they
were, I went out with a lot of men, I say men because I really didn't have a
lot of b/f's when I was younger... I joined the Army when I was 17 and I knew
there were a lot of lesbians in the army, but nothing happened, I used to
think that maybe there was a secret code or word or something and no one was
going to tell me because they thought that I was straight, I didn't know what
to do, I ended up getting pregnant and married, this lasted 3 years, then I
left but by then I had 2 children, anyway I got married again about6 years
later, I did try and tell my husband I thought I was a lesbian but he didn't
want to hear it. After 3 years of being relatively happy I met a gay woman and
she turned my life around, I went through 6 months of pure hell trying to
figure out what to do, my husband was one of the most decent men I knew and I
hated breaking my marriage up, it took me 6 months to come out to myself , my
husband eventually asked me if I was gay... I promptly burst into tears and
admitted I was...
its 12 years down the line, my kids totally accept who I am and always have done
as have my parents, in fact I have been very lucky in that I have had no
negative comments about my sexuality... I have had 2 long term relationships and
I an now with someone who I can see me spending the rest of my life with, I am
so happy that I didn't live a lie any longer and I just wish that at 17 years
old I had realized that there is no magic word or code, you either are or you aren't.,
that all I had to do was "be" and I would have been accepted into the
lesbian army circle... such a long time wasted...
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